Abapfakazi kw’isi baragira ingorane zitandukanye harimwo izifatiye ku kubura uburyo, ukunyarwa ibisigi vy’abagabo babo, ukwirukanwa, ugukumirwa, ukutamenya amategeko, imico n’akaranga, n’ibindi. Muri iki kiganiro Murisanga Mandrine Tusingwire Mando, yanditse igitabo "Greatful Widow" niwe mutumire.